Nakuru has always prided itself as a Christian city, but do these same values transcend to its locals when it comes to choosing a romantic partner?

I had the opportunity to engage a few Nakuru men and ask: church girls vs club girls?

Brian Otieno, the first man I interacted with, shared, "When I was younger, I preferred club girls since they offered spontaneity and made my life much more interesting."

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He then goes on to note that as he's gotten older, his preference has changed.

"I'm at an age where I want to settle down and marry", he notes before adding, "I am now looking for a church girl since they are guided by Christian values that I’d love passed down to my children."

Echoing Brian's thinking, Elijah Kimani shares, "To me, club girls are just for short term fun and casual relationships while the church girls are who I date with the intention of marrying."

However, Section 58 resident, Eugene Wamalwa, thinks differently from his counterparts.

Eugene shares, "I think a club or a church is just a building. The thing that matter most to me is the person’s character, temperament and how sane she is, be it a church girl or a club girl. Does she have values that I’d want passed down to our kids?"

Another Nakuru man, George Mutinda notes, "I don't mind dating a club girl. Club girls are fun and I love going out with my romantic partner. The only thing I wouldn't want is a club girl that knows every single person at the club."

The last man I talked to was Brandon Kibet who shares, "For me, any girl is fine as long as the vibe is right and we have a connection. What most guys that are hell bent on church girls don't know, is that most church girls are just retired club girls so it kind of beats the logic."

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From the various conversations, it was clear that it’s hard to generalize who Nakuru men prefer.

What's your take? Church girls or club girls?

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What do Nakuru men prefer; church girls or club girls?

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